How I feel about DSR being useful / it reflects honest opinion of a buyer...
I sold an item--which was damaged badly in shipping because it was packed poorly.
this brought me my first minus feedback in 11 years...
Who done the packing is not an issue.... It was my responsibility to see it was done and done correctly. I take full responsibility for that. I am no longer able to do many
things... (had a stroke) I trusted someone who gave me no reason not to....
When the buyer contacted me with a photo... of course I offered full refund plus the return postage.... Buyer refused several times. One instance he said he will leave that to my conscious. (That is no answer. Conscious is a subjective thing) So for a change instead of offering I asked what he would like me to do--you tell me....
He replied: "if I was the seller, I would give full refund plus I would let the buyer keep the item."
By this time, close to a month had passed since the sale... I replied with an "I am sorry, I am not willing to do that. But if you would like to keep it I will give you half of what you paid for it or full refund if you send it back plus the return postage.
(He claims if he was to ship it back......item would be further damaged.!!!! I don't see
his point why should he be concerned with that.... That would be my problem not
his.....I would be the one stuck with a busted item, not him......)
He replied with " I will chalk it up as a bad experience and give you minus feedback
Good luck with future sales after that." (My first in eleven years and two seller accounts)
At this point, let me stop and ask you: Do you think the "minus feedback" would
be there. IF I wrote back to say "OK. you get full refund plus the item"?
I don't know anymore than you do to say "yes" or "no" but there is a possibility.....
of that. However, the problem here is DSR being honest reflection of buyers' feelings. Please stop and think:
EVEN IF.... The item was described perfectly and clearly, as in this case....
EVEN IF.....It was mailed without delay
EVEN IF.....Seller communicated with the buyer courteously, was very open and helpful in every way.....
EVEN IF.......The postage amount charged to buyer was minimal, it was kept low
to attract more prospective buyers. The actual amount paid by the seller was much
higher......
What is there to stop a buyer who saw an opportunity to exploit a situation to his or her advantage, but the seller derailed that by saying "no" from acting vindictively and give you one star rating across the board? I deserve the minus feedback for item being poorly packed which was my responsibility..... BUT the issue here is DSR.......
How honest and truly reflective of buyer's feelings is the DSR? We all know how damaging it to a seller, don't we? This has been an issue for a long time. ebay
is well aware it has been used by some buyers to blackmail a seller with it to get
a partial refund.... sellers are aware if they do not... the buyer can go and file an
"item not received as described" complaint.... and what THAT means to a seller
account....... ebay simply takes the buyer word for that claim, does it not?