baysidetoys wrote:
I'm not sure how a seller with a Feedback of only 31 can have a major problem with the rules of play?
It's all about the Customer and not about you ----
1.) Meet and exceed Customer expectations
2.) Charge a fair & competitive price for shipping --- if you can't make money...... don't bother with the listing.
3.) I have not "noticed" eBay sellers leaving by the Thousands --- do you have access to some data that the rest of us aren't privy to?
4.) Never beg for DSR's --- do a stellar job of satisfying the Customer and the DSR's will come without having to beg.
5.) Focus on the Positive

You sound like an ebay cheerleader with all this meeting and greeting? Ha! I am here to make money and that is the reason I am selling on ebay. So if the only reason you are on ebay is to meet and great customers, then that reason is okay too. I am friendly but basically I am here to make money and it is getting more difficult with all the roadblocks ebay is setting up for sellers. I send out several notices per sale and get extra info for gardening customers, offer free fancy gift wrapping etc. I spend a lot more time than I should helping customers. I expect 5 stars from each of them because I earned it.
I have to be rocket scientist to understand how Search works...while actually I am just a senior trying to make some income. The old ebay was fun watching the last minute bids with fair rules for buyers and sellers. This ebay for sellers is like walking on broken glass with a hole in my pocket.
This is one of my posting IDs. I don't come to the boards with a selling ID. I have been on ebay for a lot longer than you. There are a few problems with using a selling ID on the boards... with members messing with listings of the poster... and you can read about it in the Seller's forum of why many of us use posting ID's, buying ID's and selling ID's.
I am glad you are doing so well. You are lucky. You sell mostly new items ... and can just send another one out right away. It is a little harder when you have one-of-a-kind collectibles and vintage... and they want 20% off because it is the wrong shade of blue or they threatened your feedback if you don't give in with paying for return shipping too. I am not a department store or a bank. Then when they ship it back they don't use any packing and it arrives in pieces... or they ship back a rock in a box. There is no seller protection if they have an online DC. And I am always out the listing fees. I have been lucky so far. Ha!
INSURANCE: Another trend is that the buyer will not cooperate with an Insurance claim and buyer mails back the smashed item to the seller instead of showing the post office or sending a picture for 3rd party insurance. And paypal gives a refund with no investigation. So even if the seller buys insurance, the buyer is not required to help with the process of the insurance claim. I should start a new thread on this issue.
And that return shipping cost is a monster to pay if they expect return shipping because they thought it was something else and hold feedback over your head as a threat. I had a couple of these. It is kind of hard to work with a buyer that is threatening with the first email. I am a TRS but probably not for long. Ha!
I am a 5 star seller and bend over backwards for each customer. I pack for a trip around the world and same day or next day shipping and still my shipping stars get dinged. I just want some answers from ebay on those shipping stars and ebay never replies to these questions... but I keep asking at each round table.
Go into the seller's forum and you can read all about the latest buyer trends and the threats some sellers are coping with. You can read the comments of all the sellers leaving in the Sellers forum and the other boards too. You need to read the boards if you want to know what other sellers are doing.
I never mention the word feedback or DSR stars to a buyer and no wording in my listings either. They leave what they leave. Ebay forces me to block any buyer that leaves me less than 5 stars as I cannot afford to keep them as a customer. So the same buyer will not have the opportunity to ding my stars again.
These new rules are nothing more than giving the buyers more power to get discounts and free items etc. ... go figure
I just want some answers from ebay on those shipping stars and ebay never replies to these questions... but I keep asking at each round table.